Recent updates and news from the Don’t Judge My Family campaign.

30/3/14 - Happy Mothers’ Day

Happy Mothers’ Day to all our friends and supporters. We think our Mums are fab. But what makes them fab is how they make us laugh, support us when we’re doing silly things, and cheer for us when we succeed. Not whether they’re married or not. Today we’re celebrating Mums from all types of family – cohabiting, single, widowed and married – because all Mums are special. Not just those who are married.

19/3/14 - Chancellor “proud” of marriage tax break

Today the Chancellor demonstrated his acting skills by announcing that he was proud of the marriage tax break. It’s well known that the Chancellor does not support the transferable tax allowance.

However he did say he was proud that the tax break would help four million families. But what he didn’t do was refer to the over eight million married couples who wont’t get a marriage tax break. And that’s because they don’t have a fantasy fifties marriage with a breadwinner and homemaker.

The Chancellor also didn’t mention that fewer than one in five families with children will get the allowance. Or that some of the poorest families ,with single, widowed or cohabiting parents, won’t get any help either.

The Chancellor also made no reference to the cost of the tax break – which will now probably be over £700m.

If the Government really wants to help families they could take a look at our 24 better ideas than a marriage tax break.





“linking the rate of transferable tax allowance for married couples to personal allowance so will raise to 1,050 which will help 4m families they will take abut we are proud to provide.

16/3/14 - Supporters of marriage tax breaks want to spend £2.1bn

There’s a letter in the Telegraph today from politicians and others arguing that the marriage tax break (to be confirmed in Wednesday’s budget) should be extended to all married couples. Currently, it would only go to a third of married couples: those who fit the government’s “approved type” with a breadwinner and a homemaker. The cost to the taxpayer of the government’s moralising will already be £700m a year – more than the bedroom tax saves. Trebling it would take the bill to over £2 billion, which is about the same amount of money as the Department for Energy and Climate Change spends each year!

Julianne Marriott, Campaign Director of Don’t Judge My Family said “at £700m, the marriage tax break is already a huge waste of money – in these tough times, the government should be helping families, not judging them.  Arguing that £2bn should be spent on ‘sending a signal’ about how we choose to live our lives shows just how out of touch they are.”

Extending the tax break to all married couples would mean that a very wealthy married couple would get the tax break but a cohabiting couple struggling to make ends meet would not. And it would still discriminate against all single parent families, widows and widowers, cohabiting couples and single people. 

We ran a call for evidence about how the £700m could be better spent. You can see the top 24 ideas here.

13/3/14 - Labour promises to scrap Marriage Tax Allowance

The Labour Party has promised to scrap the marriage tax allowance, which it has called “perverse and unfair”. Speaking ahead of the budget, Ed Balls (the Shadow Chancellor) has promised that instead, it will spend the money on reinstating the 10p tax band.

Commenting today, Julianne Marriott, Campaign Director of Don’t Judge My Family, the campaign against the marriage tax allowance said “The marriage tax allowance is an outdated policy through which the government is trying to promote its fantasy fifties family, with a breadwinner and a home maker. In these tough times, many couples – both married and unmarried – are both working all hours just to make ends meet – it’s totally unfair to penalise them by saying you’re only a proper couple if only one of you works. The £700m which is earmarked for the marriage tax allowance could really help families struggling to pay the bills. The government should use that money to help families instead of judging them.”

The marriage tax allowance discriminates against the 1 in 4 kids who grow up in a single parent family, cohabiting couples, widows and widowers and those couples where both, or neither, work.

Last year, our friends and supporters came up with 24 better things the government could spend £700m on to help families rather than judging them. You can find out more about them here.

2/2/14 - Only a quarter of Scots families will get marriage tax breaks

The Scottish Parliament figures show that only 26.3% of families in Scotland are eligible for the tax break.

East Kilbride MSP, Linda Fabiani, commented:

“The vast majority of families in Scotland will not benefit from this policy which effectively discriminates against large sections of Scottish society, including single parent families, unmarried couples and women who have left abusive relationships.”

We couldn’t agree more – other than pointing out it’s the same for English, Northern Irish and Welsh society too…

The SNP has committed to scrapping marriage tax breaks – which it can only do if Scotland votes to become independent.


14/1/14 - MPs: “We should judge separated parents”

MPs held a debate in Parliament today, later reported in the Telegraph, about strengthening couple relationships. However there didn’t seem much appetite for strengthening any relationship other than traditional marriages.

Speakers cited Daily Mail articles, implied that only married people care for their elderly parents or tell their children that they love them and blamed schools, churches and the BBC for fewer people marrying. All while admitting they were “light on solutions”.

There were also quite a few marriage tax break myths that we respond to here.

However there were a few reasonable comments, including speeches praising Relate and the benefits of relationship counselling. Steve McCabe MP explained that he was divorced and still had a strong role in the upbringing of his children and then clearly demolished the arguments made for introducing a marriage tax allowance.

Edward Timpson, the children’s minister, nearly said it all:

“The Coalition has introduced a marriage tax break worth £200 a year and is putting £30m over the Parliament to support marriage counselling…”

What he doesn’t say is that marriage tax breaks will cost £700m, 23 times more than the Government is investing in counselling.

We set out 24 better ideas than a marriage tax allowance, inlcuding couple counselling, in our report Help don’t judge

14/1/14 - Six wrong key arguments

Sir Edward Leigh MP said in Parliament today that he had six key arguments that rebutted opponents of marriage tax breaks. We rebut the rebuttals below… (Sir Edward Leigh is in italics; we’re not)

1. ” First, the UK is out of line with international convention in not recognising marriage in its tax system. We are virtually alone of all big countries. 

Fact. Lots don’t, including New Zealand, Sweden, Finland, Greece and Hungary. There’s been a move to  individual taxation since the 1970s which France is currently considering.

2. “The second is the distributional argument: introducing a transferable allowance for married couples will disproportionately benefit those in the lower half of the income distribution.”

Fact. The IFS says eligible families tend to be around the middle and lower-middle of the income distribution: most are in the third to sixth income decile groups. Marriage tax breaks will not help the very poorest families.

3. “The third argument is about the married couples allowance, which was dismissed by some as something of an anomaly, but which played a key role in sustaining one-earner families.”

Fact. Um. It certainly doesn’t support working single parents who are, of course, one-earner families. And while we certainly don’t want to scoff at the difference £200 can make to some families, it seems a stretch to claim it would “sustain” them.

4. “The fourth argument is that a transferable allowance would help to make work more rewarding for many of the poorest in society.”

Fact. Um. Well. Marriage tax breaks actually makes work less rewarding if your spouse (probably the husband) already works.

 5. “The fifth is that transferable allowances should be introduced as soon as possible to compensate for the attack on one-earner families resulting from the introduction of a higher-income child benefit charge.”

Fact. Any couple that is eligible for a marriage tax break is also eligible for the full amount of child benefit so it won’t provide any “compensation”.

Marriage tax breaks will go to couples where one spouse pays basic rate tax (earning between £9,440 and £41,451) and the other doesn’t pay tax. A spouse has to earn over £50,00 before lose any child benefit which would mean they were not eligible for a marriage tax break.

6. “The sixth and final argument is the stay-at-home spouse argument; most one-earner families do not have the option of becoming two-earner couple families.”

Fact. If the £700m cost of marriage tax breaks was spent on helping families with childcare or if there was more access to flexible working many one-earner families would have the option of becoming two-earner couple families. This argument also ignores the existence of couples who cannot afford not to be a two-earner couple family. They simply couldn’t pay the bills or rent on one income. And they won’t get a marriage tax break either.

This also ignores single parents, including widows, who not only won’t get a marriage tax break but also don’t have the option of becoming a two-earner couple family.


6/1/14 - Nick Clegg: scrap “unmarried couple penalty” and help workers instead

Nick Clegg today challenged the Tories to scrap the marriage tax break, which he called “the unmarried couple penalty”, in favour of giving tax breaks to basic rate income tax payers in work. Under his plans, instead of spending £700m a year giving a third of married couples £200 a year, 20 million workers who pay the basic tax rate would be better off by £140 a year.

Commenting today, Julianne Marriott, from Don’t Judge My Family, the campaign against the marriage tax allowance, said “Nick Clegg is right to challenge the Prime Minister to scrap his out-dated marriage tax break. The £200 would only go to a third of married couples – those with a breadwinner and a homemaker – and discriminates against single parents, widows and widowers, unmarried couples or couples where both work.  In these tough times, the government should be helping families not judging them.”

Last year our call for evidence received hundreds of ideas of how the £700m earmarked for marriage tax breaks could be better spent. Our report Help Don’t Judge showcases the 24 most popular ideas.

4/12/13 - Cameron: I want to spend even more on marriage tax breaks

Yesterday the Prime Minister not only confirmed his intention to spend £700m on marriage tax breaks that most married people won’t get, but also said that he wanted to go even further.

As reported in the Mirror, David Cameron said:

“I believe in marriage, I believe marriage should be recognised in the tax system. I see this as yes, a start of something I would like to extend further,”

There’s no evidence that marriage tax breaks will encourage couples to marry or stay married (or that we a Government should encourage people to marry) and it discriminates against married couples who both work, separated and single parents, widows and widowers and couples who cohabit. Only one in five families with children will get the tax breaks.

Don’t Judge My Family has just published our advent calendar and report  “Help don’t judge: 24 better ideas than a marriage tax allowance” which suggests better ideas for spending £700m which would help all families: investing in childcare for all, reversing £430m Sure Start cuts,  halting the plans to reduce payments to newly widowed parents and providing free relationship counselling for all couples that need help.

However it seems that the Prime Minister instead wants to spend  £700m of public money on what he himself has called a “signal”.

1/12/13 - Help don’t judge advent calendar

At Don’t Judge My Family, the campaign against marriage tax breaks, we don’t believe that the government should be using £700m of taxpayers’ money to judge one type of family over another. We think in these tough times, the government should be helping families not judging them. So over the summer we launched our call for evidence and asked you how you’d better spend the £700m currently earmarked for marriage tax breaks. We got hundreds of great responses – thank you! We’ve turned the 24 most popular ideas into an advent calendar, and there’s a also a full report.

We hope you’ll click every day to see your better ideas, tell others and then tell us your even better ideas by email, twitter @dontjudgemy using the hashtag #helpdontjudge or facebook 

Despite these many useful alternatives we’re giving the Government, we still expect that on Thursday the Chancellor will (again) announce he is going ahead with marriage tax breaks in the autumn statement. This means that there will probably be a vote on it in the House of Commons early next year.

We believe the marriage tax allowance wastes £700m of public money to promote a fantasy 1950s family- one with a “breadwinner” and a “homemaker”. It discriminates against working parents, widows and widowers, single parents and people who chose not to marry. And we’ll carry on campaigning until the Government reverses the marriage tax allowance and spends the money helping families, not judging them.

In the meantime, happy advent!